Do You Have the Right of First Refusal?

 Posted on March 01, 2021 in Kane

If you are a parent whose time with your child has been limited due to a divorce, it can be very difficult for you to maintain the relationship with your child that you wish to have. This may be especially true if the other parent has been granted a majority of the parenting time and you only see your child a few days each month. Illinois law, however, allows parents in such a situation to include provisions in their parenting plan that could create extra parenting time opportunities under certain circumstances.

Defining the Right of First Refusal

Under the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (IMDMA), your parenting plan should address what is called “the right of first refusal” regarding your child. If you have the right of first refusal, it means that the other parent must contact you and offer you the opportunity to care for your child if the other parent would otherwise need to find a sitter or alternative childcare. Depending on how your parenting plan is structured, you may be required to offer the same opportunity to the other parent if and when you need someone to care for your child. It is important to note that including the right of first refusal in your parenting plan does not obligate you to accept every such opportunity; the right of first refusal refers to optional additional parenting time.

Setting the Parameters

If the right of first refusal is going to be a part of your parenting plan, specific rules on how it will be utilized need to be determined. One element is the duration. For example, will the other parent need to call and offer the right if he or she only has a two-hour meeting after work one day? Or, will the right of first refusal be reserved for longer periods such as overnights or a certain minimum number of hours?

You will also need to determine how the two of you will communicate the right, whether it be text messages, phone calls, or emails. It is also important to establish an expected timeline for notifying each other of a childcare need and your subsequent response. You may also wish to establish transportation expectations in advance, along with any other issues that may be pertinent to making sure your child has what he or she needs.

Get Help With Your Parenting Plan from a St. Charles Family Lawyer

Co-parenting after a divorce can be challenging, but a properly-crafted parenting plan can help both you and the other parent find common ground. For guidance in developing a parenting arrangement that suits your needs, contact an experienced family law attorney in Kane County. Call 630-665-7300 for a confidential consultation at MKFM Law today.

Source:

http://www.ilga.gov/legislation/ilcs/ilcs5.asp?ActID=2086&ChapterID=0